To learn more about desire as a couple: Intimacy and Desire by Dr. David Schnarh. Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire by Justin Lehmiller The Erotic Mind by Dr. Jack Morin Your Blue
From a very young age, we learn what it means to need someone and what happens when we do. The way our earliest caregivers responded to our needs, whether they were consistent, unpredictable, or emoti
We all have an internal accelerator that responds to things that turn us on, and a brake that switches arousal off when our mind or body senses a reason to hold back. This can be triggered by all kind